There’s more than one important relationship in the life of an escort, namely that between her and the client who booked her services. If you ladies don’t create strong ties with other people who are essential to your job, you won’t make it big in the industry.
By other people we mean professionals responsible for making you look your best, but not limited to that. In today’s blog post we will talk about those people whose friendship and advice will mean a lot for you in the long run.
A gynecologist
In case you don’t have one already, ask your friends for recommendations ASAP. For starters, a great gynecologist will help you steer clear of STDs. He or she will tell you what tests to take every couple of months to avoid health problems.
It doesn’t matter that you don’t do bareback and that you always have a condom close by. Cervicitis and/or UTIs are other issues you can deal with at any given time. Make going to your doc a priority, be sure to do it as often as they recommend it, and you’ll be fine.
Cosmeticians
As a female provider, you must look your best every time you go to an encounter. An excellent cosmetician works wonders, ladies. You will need to visit one regularly for manicure and pedicure, as well as for waxing your eyebrows and other unwanted hair. Your skin should always look flawless, too, and cosmeticians will take care of that in detail. Looking like a goddess is never easy, which is exactly why you need these professionals in your life as soon as possible.
Besides, cosmeticians can make great friends and confidantes. They’ll be there for you when you need an urgent service at any hour. Plus, they know your preferences, which means less time wasted on explanations.
Hairstylists
Your hair, no matter its length, must also look fabulous. Find a professional hairstylist and they’ll take care of everything for you. They know what’s trendy and what’s not, they offer advice on hair masks you can do on your own if you can’t make it to them, and so on.
Hotel managers
Remember Pretty Woman? Julia Roberts befriends the hotel manager and gets access to all sorts of interesting info. Like where to buy the best outfits to impress Richard Gere’s character.
Being friends with a hotel manager leads the way to a profitable relationship, especially if you prefer outcalls over incalls. With his or her help, your dates will stay private and you’ll gain new customers. Why? Because a hotel manager always knows when a client who stays with them asks for a provider. You can be sure they’ll recommend you over other escorts.
Family and friends
If you’re close with your relatives, they’ll be your emotional support and comfort through different situations. They will understand your job and never judge you for what you’re doing. However, if you don’t have a good relationship with your family, try and make them see that your profession doesn’t make you a bad person. If they still decide to disown you or stop talking to you, let them be and do your thing.
Friends are also great comfort. It is said that friends are the family you choose, so if you don’t see eye to eye with your relatives, you can count on your pals to be there for you.
Your significant other
Have you found your soulmate? Make sure you maintain a healthy relationship with her or him. If you haven’t but you’re seeing this really great guy or girl and you’re heading towards a relationship, go clean about your profession. Explain what you do and tell them that having sex with strangers in exchange for a donation doesn’t mean that you’re cheating on them.
Once the secret’s out, you’ll feel better. If your partner decides to leave you because they don’t like your job, let them. Being with a provider isn’t an easy pill to swallow. Don’t despair, dear escorts: you will find someone who doesn’t mind that you’re a companion.
How about you, dear readers: do you have other examples of profitable relationships? Let us know in the comments section below.
It is also good to have uber/Lyft/taxi driver pals because you will always have a ride with someone you know and trust anf rarely have to wait for them to arrive
Any tricks to befriending hotel management? I am always afraid they will call LE. I have seen hotel blacklists and of course whole counties to avoid!
Thanks for sharing now I have a better understanding and out look thanks again