Are you willing to try out all kind of sexual novelties in order to broaden you service list?
Are you coquetting with the idea of adding light BDSM in your service offer?
Here are some pointers on what light BDSM means, after that it’s your choice if this practice appeals to you or not.
First of all
you have to understand the meaning of
BDSM.
The letters
stand for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and
Masochism.
BDSM it’s a
term that includes a wide range of erotic activities, that can vary in
intensity from:
light bondage – ties of the wrists and/or ankles, made of a soft fabric like silk, associated with foreplay and sexual teasing.
erotic spanking – spanking a person for the sexual
arousal of both parties. The spanking can involve the use of a hand, a paddle
or a cane.
suspension bondage – a form of sexual bondage where the
bound person is hung from a suspension point.
Shibari – in Japanese it means “to tie” and
it describes an artistic form of rope bondage.
caning – a type of corporal punishment that
consists in a number of hits with a cane, on the submissive bare buttocks or
hands.
Get Your BDSM Accessories!
As a
beginner escort in the art of soft BDSM you have to stock up with some BDSM
accessories:
Whips – the purpose of this sex toy is to
deliver a light stinging sensation and a naughty sound. It is not designed to
produce extreme pain.
The whip is the first accessory that a dominant/submissive escort gets because of its meaning – the feeling of control and power that it offers.
Blindfolds – the purpose of the blindfolds is to take one sense away in order to heighten the rest.
Another interesting fact
is that while the men are aroused by what they see, women are aroused by what
they feel.
Handcuffs – handcuffing someone forces its
body to do…nothing. This leaves our body to fully enjoy the intensity of the
sensations.
Ben Wa Balls – also known as Geisha Balls, the Ben
Wa Balls have a dual efficiency: they give pleasure and help increase the
strength of the pelvic floor muscles.
Submissive Escorts – Learn How to Be
One!
Are you
entering the light BDSM world as a submissive service provider? First of all learn
what a submissive person is!
The
submissive is the person that makes a conscious choice to give up some or all
control of her life to another person, a dominant. That means that someone else
can control your body and behavior within the preset limits.
What makes a
good submissive is the intense desire to please a dominant person and to feel
overpowered. Also the decision to be a submissive must be entirely your choice,
don’t enter the game if you feel pressured into it.
As a light
BDSM submissive include in your sex life some role playing in bed, some light
spanking, light bondage and dirty talk.
The
submissive is not a weak person and it is also not a passive one it’s just a
person that wants to offer pleasure to her dominant, doing whatever the
dominant desires, within the boundaries already agreed by both parties.
Are you a
client that’s into soft BDSM? Here are some Do’s and Don’ts.
Things you have to do when booking a submissive escort:
Browse
through the escort list of girls that offer submissive services and view all of
the services that they offer.
Think if the
escorts list of services will satisfy your sexual needs and look if she
fulfills your fetishes.
Read and
accept her list of rules and limits.
Discuss
about a safe word and accept to stop at the moment when the escort gives you
the safe word.
Things you can’t do when booking a
submissive escort:
Don’t drink
or do drugs before the date with the submissive escort.
Respect her
list of services and the safe word and do not cross the line by doing something
she doesn’t want.
Always wear
condoms while doing anything sexual.
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