Even though
it may look like another ordinary encounter, dating a virgin is not as simple
as it may seem.
A virgin is
not just another client of the day, because in many of the cases, the virgin
client is shy, a little socially awkward, feeling nervous and stressing out
about the date with you.
Also think about it: you will be the woman that will
offer him his first sexual experience, so whether you like it or not you’ll
play an important role in his life and he can become emotionally attached to
you.
That’s why
not all escorts are into dating virgins. Some of the girls specifically ask the
client this particular question because dating a virgin can be tricky and you
must be really prepared to properly handle a first timer.
You may ask yourself why dating a virgin can be tricky, well here are some aspects you need to consider when you market yourself as an escort for first-timers in the art of sexual delights:
1. Virgins don’t really know what they want
That’s why it’s important that you have a routine ready when dating an innocent lover. Opposite from an experienced man that comes to you knowing exactly what he likes and what he desires sexually, a rookie in love making leaves you to experiment and guess what excites his senses.
2. Rookies are shy, nervous, stressed and tensed
That’s why
you have to arm yourself with patience and help him relax, loosen up and calm
his nerves. The main reason that makes him such a nervous wreck is that he has
a lot of questions about how your date will go on and about the limits imposed
by you during the encounter.
What you can do is be calm, warm and attentive, talk to him, explain from the beginning how things will go on and the most important thing: be PATIENT!
3. Tell him about the importance of discretion…from both of you!
You are open minded and highly imaginative, eager to listen to his kinkiest fantasies and weirdest fetishes as long as he is also discreet about your time together and your private info like phone number and your incall location.
4. Be prepared to make an impression on your rookie date
You are his first real woman and even though you have “the talk” with him from the start, he may end up wanting to keep in touch with you, to text you and to call you for no specific reason. Distance yourself and explain the rules from the beginning.
5. Do not let yourself be impressed by the fact that this is his first time
Do not let the fact that he is a first time impress you to the point of offering him extra attention and special services. You are a professional, conducting your own escort business so do not fall into that trap. Treat your first timer well, be patient and take him step by step through the pleasures of sex but nothing more. If he is satisfied by your services he will come back for more and eventually turn into a regular.
6. Prepare yourself for a looong date
It’s not about the duration of the performance but the challenge of making him relax and feel comfortable in your presence. Once more you have to be patient and guide him. Also you have to be aware not to turn your date into a teaching moment. You are there to please him and to make him fully enjoy his first sexual experience not to give him tips and tricks for his future sexual encounters.
7. Don’t forget to check if he is of legal age
If you are dealing with a minor, you can find yourself arrested on charges of sexual abuse of a minor or even statuary rape. Ask him for the identification that proves his age.
8. Expect for a quick climax even if the rookie has booked you for a couple of hours
Try to take
things slowly, make him relax and explain to him that he has nothing to feel
ashamed about if he reaches climax too early.
When he gets
over excited slow things down and convince him that he shouldn’t urge into
losing his virginity in the first couple of minutes, that this encounter should
not be just a check-off from his to do list!
9. Also
expect for the opposite to happen
Your first
timer can experience difficulty climaxing. This thing is understandable because
he hasn’t experienced a woman’s touch before and the only orgasms that he had
were self-induced so he might be used to reach orgasm in a particular way.
10. Keep in mind that he can become a
regular
If he is
pleased by his first encounter you can turn your rookie into a regular client,
so be gentle, warm and friendly with him and make him feel comfortable and safe
in your presence.
So the rules are simple: be careful not to deal with a
minor, be patient and delicate, give him time to leave aside his nervousness
and stress and explain very clearly from the beginning the rules of your
encounter – what you do and what you dislike doing.
Keep in mind
that even if you are dealing with a virgin client you still have to follow the
same rules and respect your responsibilities. Make your virgin client happy and
turn him into a regular.